Your Type
You always take meticulous care of your partner in relationships, even spoiling them into a child devoid of life skills. This pattern of "using giving as a bargaining chip for love" actually masks your extreme insecurity that "you will be abandoned if you aren't useful"; you fear that your sheer self lacks the qualification to be loved, so you use "making them completely dependent on you" as a safety rope, ensuring you hold an irreplaceable position in the relationship. But true love isn't built on debt. Try doing no chores next weekend and letting your partner prepare dinner for you; when you learn to believe "Even if I don't give, I am still worthy of love", your relationship can finally breathe healthily.
💡 Did you know?
This defense mechanism often appears in 'Savior Complex'. By making the partner completely dependent on them, they ensure their absolute safety and non-abandonment in the relationship.
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