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Whichever stall you visit instantly gets packed; you can even get orcs and elves partying together in the streets. This behavior of 'constantly burning yourself to hype up the vibe' actually reflects a tremendous fear of 'awkward silences and becoming insignificant.' You fear that if everyone isn't thrilled, it's your fault, and that if you quiet down, people will stop looking at you, so you use 'overloaded enthusiasm' to secure your core status in the group. But constantly acting as everyone's sun leaves you feeling exceptionally empty after a long day of partying. Try stepping back to the rear of the crowd in a quieter corner and doing absolutely nothing, just being an ordinary tourist. Once you stop feeling responsible for others' happiness, you can truly enjoy your own peace.
💡 Did you know?
'Emotional labor' doesn't just happen at work. Those who over-assume the 'mood maker' role in social settings often experience more severe energy crashes when alone.
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