Your Type
Your love is like a romantic movie. You pursue ritualistic surprises and dramatic plots, rejecting ordinary routines. This craving for "constantly creating dramatic scenes and highlight moments" actually reflects your hidden insecurity of "not deserving to be loved simply"; you fear that without this gorgeous packaging and proof of being crazy in love, they don't actually care about you that much, so you use "various tests and flamboyant romance" to constantly validate your weight in their heart. But living constantly in a script tires out your partner who has to play along, and covers up your true selves. Try letting go of your obsession with anniversaries and surprises, observe a small thing they do for you daily and sincerely thank them; when you learn to take off the romantic filter, you'll find unadorned love even more touching.
💡 Did you know?
The tendency to romanticize (love must be epic) stems from humans' natural craving for 'peak experiences' — extreme experiences leave far deeper memory imprints.
PsyPals · psypals.com