Your Type
You need a "soul haven" that can catch all your emotions; their ultimate tolerance and patience is the key to confirming you are deeply accepted. This attachment pattern of "demanding security by constantly testing boundaries" actually masks your deep fear of "having your true self rejected"; you subconsciously feel your emotions are a burden, so you use "showing your worst side" to test them, believing that only if they don't run away is the love real. But constantly dumping emotions on them one-sidedly will eventually crush even the sturdiest haven. Try taking three minutes alone to breathe deeply before your next emotional breakdown; when you learn to calm your inner storm yourself, your partner will become someone watching the sea beside you, not your life preserver.
💡 Did you know?
Patience is the hardest love expression to cultivate — it requires finding a continuous balance between one's own expectations and the other person's pace.
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