In interpersonal relationships, conflicts are always unavoidable. When you have a disagreement or even a fight with someone, are you used to arguing strongly on just grounds, or silently enduring? This quiz will reveal your truest face in conflicts through 10 daily scenarios that easily trigger disputes. Come test how high your 'fighting power value' is!
10 questions · ~3 min
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You are extremely afraid of conflict, as soon as you smell gunpowder, your first reaction is to 'escape'. You would rather wrong yourself and silently swallow the grievance than have a head-on conflict with others. During an argument, your mind often goes blank, and only afterwards do you regret why you didn't talk back at the time. You need to learn to bravely express your dissatisfaction.
💡 After a fight, you most often replay it in your head while taking a shower and come up with perfect comeback lines.
Your ultimate move is 'cold violence'. When a conflict occurs, you won't yell, but directly close the communication channels, using silence and ignoring to punish the other person. Your gaze can be cold enough to freeze people, making the other person feel invisible pressure until they can't take it and take the initiative to apologize. But actually, cold wars hurt feelings too.
💡 You can leave the other person's messages on 'read' for over a week.
You are like a peace ambassador, always playing the role of a peacemaker in conflicts. You are very rational, able to objectively look at both sides' positions, and try to find a compromise acceptable to everyone. You don't like falling out, believing 'harmony is precious'. But sometimes, over-pursuing peace might make you lose your own principles.
💡 The phrase you say most often is 'Let everyone take a step back'.
Your way of dealing with conflict is 'playing Tai Chi'. When others argue with you, you will use humor, playing dumb, or changing the subject to dissolve the serious atmosphere. You feel fighting is too draining, it's better for everyone to laugh and let it pass. Although this move often works, sometimes it makes the other person feel you are not facing the problem seriously.
💡 You are very good at using memes or funny stickers to reply to angry people.
During a fight, you easily fall into a victim complex. You will use tears, playing pitiful, or bringing up old scores to make the other person feel guilty, and thereby gain the upper hand in the dispute. The phrase you say most often is 'I sacrificed so much for you, how can you treat me like this'. You need to realize that true communication should not be built on emotional manipulation.
💡 Your tears during an argument can always fall on command, your acting skills are top-notch.
To you, an argument is like a debate competition. You won't be swayed by emotions, but will calmly list points 1, 2, and 3, using rigorous logic and evidence to refute the other person until they are speechless and fully convinced. Your articulation is excellent and your combat power is off the charts, but sometimes people feel you are too aggressive and unreasonable.
💡 When arguing, you even take screenshots of chat logs and highlight key points to slap the other person's face.
You won't directly swear out loud, but every word you say carries sarcasm and sourness. You are very good at 'pointing at the mulberry and cursing the locust' (making indirect accusations), using a mocking tone to sting the other person's nerves. Even if the other person gets angry, you will pretend to be innocent and say: 'When did I mean that, it's you overthinking'. Your sarcastic remarks are very lethal.
💡 You really like posting stories on social media that don't name names, but anyone with eyes knows who you are scolding.
Your temper comes fast and goes fast; once your landmine is stepped on, your anger will be like a volcanic eruption, instantly burning everything around to ashes. You will roar loudly, wildly spew swear words, and even throw things. But usually after venting, your anger subsides, and you might even regret whether you were too out of control just now. You need to learn to control your emotions.
💡 When you are angry, your speaking speed doubles, and your lung capacity is amazing.
In interpersonal relationships, conflicts are always unavoidable. When you have a disagreement or even a fight with someone, are you used to arguing strongly on just grounds, or silently enduring? This quiz will reveal your truest face in conflicts through 10 daily scenarios that easily trigger disputes. Come test how high your 'fighting power value' is!
There are 8 result types, including: Escapist Softie, Cold War Iceberg, Peaceful Mediator.
10 questions, about 3 minutes, free and no sign-up required.